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"It's your fault" — people who always blame others

4:30Marco Montemagno · podcast RSS

An uncomfortable tennis match becomes Montemagno’s example of how easily we blame other people for a poor result. His friend describes the same obstacles in the opposite way, prompting him to consider what he could improve in his own game. The reflection moves to work: independent thinking, values and responsibility help distinguish personal aims from the expectations of parents, managers, media and audiences. The final contrast is between one’s own assessment and a reputation in other people’s eyes.

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An uncomfortable tennis match becomes Montemagno’s example of how easily we blame other people for a poor result. His friend describes the same obstacles in the opposite way, prompting him to consider what he could improve in his own game. The reflection moves to work: independent thinking, values and responsibility help distinguish personal aims from the expectations of parents, managers, media and audiences. The final contrast is between one’s own assessment and a reputation in other people’s eyes.

Key points

  • The speaker treats wind, rain and noise as obstacles, while his friend experiences them differently.
  • Asking what to improve in one’s own game shifts attention from excuses to responsibility.
  • Independent thinking and personal values help assess choices beyond external approval.
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