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The fear of not making it

3:52Marco Montemagno · podcast RSS

Answering a question about the possible failure of his own projects, Montemagno offers three personal ways of putting fear in perspective. First, he distinguishes imagined public attention from reality: an unsuccessful initiative does not erase every relationship or future possibility. Second, he argues for protection against catastrophic risks that prevent a fresh start, rather than treating every exposure as equivalent. Third, he considers the relationship between preparation and performance, drawing on a sporting idea of normalisation to avoid turning a match or launch into a final verdict on personal worth. He recalls experiencing this pressure when younger and now approaching projects with more continuity. He also mentions his own activities, including 4books, Competenze and books, within the examples. These are autobiographical reflections on risk and pressure, not guarantees that failure has no consequences.

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Answering a question about the possible failure of his own projects, Montemagno offers three personal ways of putting fear in perspective. First, he distinguishes imagined public attention from reality: an unsuccessful initiative does not erase every relationship or future possibility. Second, he argues for protection against catastrophic risks that prevent a fresh start, rather than treating every exposure as equivalent. Third, he considers the relationship between preparation and performance, drawing on a sporting idea of normalisation to avoid turning a match or launch into a final verdict on personal worth. He recalls experiencing this pressure when younger and now approaching projects with more continuity. He also mentions his own activities, including 4books, Competenze and books, within the examples. These are autobiographical reflections on risk and pressure, not guarantees that failure has no consequences.

Key points

  • The opening question concerns fear that a personal project will not achieve the hoped-for result.
  • The speaker encourages a more proportionate view of failure as a supposedly permanent public judgement.
  • He distinguishes recoverable risk from catastrophic consequences against which he seeks protection.
  • Normalising performance means avoiding an excessive mental separation from preparation.
  • A project can be approached as a repeatable practice without making it the sole measure of personal identity.
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Bobby Biscuit

Marco’s dog: he introduces him by this name when he barks during a recording. A little domestic cameo that explains who is interrupting the conversation.

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The bald jokes

The hair and shampoo jokes are part of his self-deprecating humour about being bald.

Across the reviewed archive: 141 items
#3 in the ranking

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Ping-pong / table tennis

A reference to his background: Marco says he played table tennis professionally when he was younger. This explains his mentions of paddles and his sporting experience.

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