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Why we stay stuck in a job we hate (and how to change it)

23:35Marco Montemagno · podcast RSS

Marco begins with a question put to audiences at three theater dates: who dislikes their job? He estimates a large response by eye, rather than presenting a scientific survey. He then considers reasons for staying: actual or perceived financial needs, past investments, habit, professional identity, uncertainty and difficulty planning an alternative. He proposes identifying what is really wrong: the activity, colleagues, location, pace or wider context. Where possible, he recommends preparing a transition, experimenting in available time and building a financial buffer instead of deciding under pressure. New technology, conversations and transferable skills may reveal possibilities. Exploration may also lead to keeping the existing job while changing some conditions; reinvention is described as an ability that can be practiced.

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Marco begins with a question put to audiences at three theater dates: who dislikes their job? He estimates a large response by eye, rather than presenting a scientific survey. He then considers reasons for staying: actual or perceived financial needs, past investments, habit, professional identity, uncertainty and difficulty planning an alternative. He proposes identifying what is really wrong: the activity, colleagues, location, pace or wider context. Where possible, he recommends preparing a transition, experimenting in available time and building a financial buffer instead of deciding under pressure. New technology, conversations and transferable skills may reveal possibilities. Exploration may also lead to keeping the existing job while changing some conditions; reinvention is described as an ability that can be practiced.

Key points

  • A show of hands in theaters introduces job dissatisfaction.
  • Financial security, fear of loss and identity can hinder change.
  • Marco suggests planning a transition where possible.
  • It is useful to distinguish the occupation from its working environment.
  • Small experiments, transferable skills and contacts help explore alternatives.
Open the source: Perché restiamo incollati a un lavoro che odiamo (e come cambiarlo)

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Due Ciocorì

A tiny amount of money: either very low pay or something that costs next to nothing.

Across the reviewed archive: 30 items
#12 in the ranking

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Il grano / fare il grano

Money, or making money. This is common Italian slang that Marco uses when talking about pay, business or monetisation.

Across the reviewed archive: 107 items
#6 in the ranking

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SWITCH GEARS. GET CURIOUS.

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